Friday, January 15, 2010

Is this bad parenting or what?

My sister hits me all the time, and she gives me bruises everywhere. I told my mom about it, and all she said was that it's my problem and that I need to deal with it myself. Why is my mom not doing anything about this? Is this bad parenting or what?Is this bad parenting or what?
No, it is great parenting, it teaches you a life lesson. If you want something done, you have to do it yourself.





Sit your sister down and say, I know you dont get how much I dont like you hitting me, so to prove it, when you hit me I am going to hit you twice as hard back until you learn.





She will get the point.Is this bad parenting or what?
The reason your mom is not doing anything about your sister hitting and bruising you could be anything. Maybe she thinks she is too busy, having some kind of personal problem like marital problems, or something else. It IS bad parenting. You should consider getting help from someone else like your dad, another family member, teacher, etc.
Hit her back she'll learn her lesson. I've learned the best way to learn or teach a lesson is to actually experience it. Leave a nice little bruise for her and I bet it will come to an end. If she don't stop your mom will have to if you both keep beating the crap out of each other.
Well are you between the ages of 13 - 17 ? Because when your a teenager your parents just count on you to handle your problems on your own . But if your a kid and your mom isn't doing anything about that then maybe she was busy at that time or maybe it's bad parenting .
I think that is wrong of your mother not to do anything. Maybe she assumes because you are a boy that you should just deal with it and that it doesn't really hurt you.





My advice?? Punch her back.





My sister used to pick on our younger cousin (a boy) sooo much when we were kids, and the adults didnt do much about it because ';shes just a girl';.. so one day he just went ape-sh*t and punched her and kicked her and she's never touched him since.





Sometimes tough love is the only way to do it :)





Good luck.
well if your mom isn't doing anything about it then ya it is bad parenting. but if she isn't doing anything about it, then you should tell her to leve you alone. if she doesnt then fight back. But dont get to vilent.
teach her a game that my dad taught me when I liked to hit people





tell her lets see who can hit the lightest and tell her to go first, then punch her as hard as u can and tell her she wins, and hit her back every time she hits you twice as hard
If your dad is in the picture, I would say to go to him as well. The next time your sister does so, try going back to your mom and showing her, hey, my sister did this, can you please help.
it all depends on your age, i'm sure there are things you are living out, like what did you do to your sister to make her hit you?
Why do you let your sister hit you? Stand up for yourself. Hit her back a couple times and she will stop. Your mom is probably just tired of you two fighting.
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Your sister is assaulting you. If your Mom won't do anything about it, tell someone who will, like a police officer or teacher. Both your sister and your Mom are doing something wrong.
Chances are if she confronts your sister, she's gonna keep doing the same thing so I think you should find a way to handle it yourself.
.maybe she wants you to settle your own differences? you gotta be more specifichow mcuh older is your sister?(or younger perhaps??)
Ah siblings..... hit her back and stop being a wuss. If she knows you will retaliate I bet she'll think twice before hitting you again.
UM, yeah it is! I think it's time to talk to a school counselor about this and see about getting your sister some help!
You sound like the kind of kid who shoots up highschools.
maybe you deserve it? I know my brother did, he was a pain in the butt. He even admits it to this day he deserved getting punched
Kid grow up... parents are not god, they are just people like you and me.
well she is probably sick of breaking up your fights. It is hard but stick up for yourself and see if that helps
get ur sister back dont be a *****
all i gotta say is whip out the back hand. and if ur mom gives u any lip its ur sisters prob then yell at her LAWL
yes it is. call child protection services or 911.

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